If you’ve been wondering about whether or not your ex has secretly wanted you back, we have the 5 signs that they do. We also talk about how to get them to remind themselves of the love they felt for you in the past and start missing what it once was like with you.
Your ex might be wondering about whether or not you’ve secretly wanted them back. We have the three signs that they just might and how to get them to start missing what it once was like with you.
-You’re a topic of conversation, not because they need to vent about you but because there’s love in the tone.
-Their friends start teasing them about you and how they’ve missed out on the time that could have been spent with you.
-They’re constantly looking at their phone, hoping for a message from you or checking to see if it’s still active because this is one of the ways in which they can be reminded of what it was like when you talked all the time.
-They mention your name without prompting and their eyes light up when they talk about you – even if it’s only for a few seconds.
-You feel relief because, at the end of the conversation, they ask how you are doing or want to see more pictures of your life now that things have changed. They might be thinking about you more than they’re showing.
How do you know if your ex secretly misses you?
It’s difficult to say with any certainty but, typically the “I miss you” texts may come in bursts and not be as frequent. The frequency of pics or skypes might also slow. There are some things they could do to make it easier for them to reconnect but, honestly the best thing is just letting that person know how you feel and see if they want more first before dropping anything on them. If someone misses their ex too much this can lead to all sorts of unhealthy activities like stalking, drinking a lot, sleeping around, hurting themselves etc. And one last hint – if your ex contacted you first then talk about what led up to the break-up before discussing future possibilities assuming they’re interested in working things out.
Instead of thinking about whether or not you’re secretly wanted back, it might be best to work on making yourself feel better. There are tons of ways to do this but one we like is by using the story of how much your ex loved and missed you before they broke up with you. This will help remind them what life was like when they were with you and maybe that will be enough to make them want more.
How do you know if your ex is trying to get your attention?
It is possible to tell that an ex-lover is trying to get their attention by looking at the clues. These will vary depending on the situation, but there are some things that are universally noticeable when they are related to a desire for romantic or sexual attention.
Exceptions can always be noted and look for interactions like receiving text messages from your ex after not hearing from them in weeks, invitations to social events including time when you could spend time with them in order to get closure or hanging out with friends they know without any other reason than just seeming friendly.
Actions like these all point towards someone who has interest in getting back together again. It may seem purely coincidental but if this happens every single time.
There are many reasons why an ex might be trying to get your attention, and those reasons can change over time. It could be that they miss you or it could be because of some unresolved feelings left unresolved in the relationship before it ended. Regardless of their motive, how do you know what they are trying to say? You don’t! If a former lover was reaching out for anything more than closure on the other end, silence is the only answer worth giving. There’s no point in pursuing something if all you want is for them to leave (and vice versa).
How do you tell if your ex still has feelings for you?
1. If there’s still contact over the phone or on social media then it is possible that they may still have feelings for you.
2. Prevention is key when trying to avoid a potential disaster! No calling, no text message, no Facebook messages of any kind and if you do happen to see them in person just make small talk. Otherwise good luck staying sane while waiting for them to come back!
3. When someone has feelings for someone else it is usually quite obvious and front-of-mind even if they are not aware of it themselves but often cause problems with work, home, family and/or friends as their thoughts are consumed with that one person. All sense of relief disappears and the rollercoaster of emotions starts all over again.
There are three signs your ex wants you back:
-They have a sudden burst of communication, which may not be as frequent or intense.
-The frequency of pictures and Skype sessions might slow down.
-If they seek to reconnect it will be because they want more than just closure.
We hope you found this article insightful and that it has given you some food for thought. If your ex was on the fence about getting back together with you, but hasn’t said anything yet to make a decision one way or another, be patient and try not to push them too hard – they may need time to work through their thoughts. But if the signs seem clear enough (and we’re sure they will!), then go ahead and ask them out! And don’t forget our final tip: get ready for an “I love you” response when asking them how much they missed being in a relationship with YOU.